what he hears when you say........

Did You Know: 

One of the Sexiest Things that men find attractive is when a woman Stands Tall. A woman who stands tall
typically a) dresses well, b) exercises often, and c) is confident about her body and what it's good for. And
if she's proud of her figure no matter what shape or size, that makes men take notice, as well.

Source: by David Zinczenko - Yahoo! Health Expert for Relationships

 

 

Featured Topic: What He Hears When You Say....

You Say - "Let’s Talk…" -------> What He Hears - “You’re in Trouble”

What would work better? If you have something you need to say or confront him with, say this instead, “I’m
having a problem...” When he asks for more information, tell him the specific issue. Men naturally like to
solve problems, and this will engage him initially without him becoming instantly defensive.



When You Say, "Does this make me look fat?" -----> What He Hears - “It’s a yes or no question that I
can’t win”

What would work better? Don’t ask Yes or No questions. It sounds too much like an attorney, not the woman
he loves. Think about it from his perspective. If you do really look fat in an outfit he’s not going to tell
you, unless he’s mad. Save this question for your girlfriend, sister or mother. They’ll give you an honest
opinion that he can’t.



When you say, "I love you." -----> What He Hears – “I love you, and want to hear you tell me you
love me too.”

What would work better? Walk up to him and put your head on his shoulder……and just keep it there. He may
say “What’s up” and “Anything wrong,” but don’t move. Feeling you that close without you saying anything will
get him to start talking to you, if you will just wait a few minutes.